About Women de Loft

24 July 2013

2.5 years had passed since I started this blog. Now, this place had become both my haven and a place for me to learn more about myself. Looking back, I’m glad I started it back then. I guess, sometimes, things happened for a reason.

Life had been good and so much better for the past years. And with the arrival of my precious baby, little milkie, a year ago, she had kept me real occupied, both mentally and physically.

I love her to bits. I love my family. I love my life. Life’s never been better…

Love, .La

From “Jerry Maguire”: You had me at “hello.”


26 December 2010

I created this website, Women de Loft, on the 26 December 2010. It was a cloudy day. m

Earlier on, I wrote and sent out an email. An email which I don’t wished to send, an email that will probably change my whole life, an email which I hope I will not regret, an email which will make me lose something really special and precious to me…

Somehow, at that moment, I felt that I don’t have a choice. Life just doesn’t seem fair especially when I found what I wanted but had to let it go. I started to wonder why… and I felt that life suddenly seems so meaningless… I felt alone…

That’s when I created this.

For the past 30 years of my life, I had been living a rather happy life with setbacks, and decisions that I made and never regretted till now. I made this decision because there weren’t any other options. It was beyond what I can do, without going against my own morals. So this is the best I can do – to wait patiently for a miracle to happen. And while waiting and praying, I shall share my thoughts and things that I had learned, in Women de Loft.

Lastly, someone told me that a long time ago – live your life, love your life. You only live once…

Love, .La


From “A Lot Like Love”: There’s nothing better than a great romance to ruin a perfectly good friendship.